Mrs.DJtoBE

Would you put your dog in a pink tuxedo for the wedding? Carrie Underwood Did.

2010-07-15T10:58:00.000-07:00

Carrie Underwood's wedding details are circling the web- Check out People's latest issue to see all the beautiful festivities! Check out her new wedding band too!

Would you put your dog or pet in a tuxedo for your wedding? Can't wait to see all the pics!

Photo Credit: http://www.celebweddings.com and http://www.carrieunderwood.fm

A Milwaukee Bachelorette Party- The Ultimate Challenge or Ultimate Pleasant Surprise?

2010-06-09T20:52:00.000-07:00

First of all, I apologize for slacking in my blogging. My goal for summer is to write more regularly. Life, work, love, more work...they all take time and I apologize for my hiatus. That being said, Bachelorette Planning Season is here. Yes I know wedding Season is here and in full swing but the Bachelorette parties always come first! I have a feeling I will have many firsts in the next year.

So far I've hosted my first baby shower, held my first new born, planted my first garden, and now I'm planning my first bachelorette party. Yes, I've been involved and helped with showers and bachelorette parties at different levels but this is the first time I will be hosting and running the show. While that sounds like lots of fun, it also brings an immense amount of pressure.

Sure, that sounds silly but when it comes down to it these are all important milestones in a young woman's life and I intend to fully bask in them and make them special. Especially for my best friend(s)!

That being said, I am starting to research the theme, favors, festivities, and fun!

As I dabble in the waters of "techie" domestication, I am truly enjoying myself. What is "technie domestication" you may ask? I learn by trial, fire, and well, Google. If I want to do something, find something, or try something, I find it via the web. I find vast amounts of new resources, friends to help and my new best friend next to my iphone/pad, hootsuite, and Google itself. (yes I'm a dork but I embrace it with my high heels on. =))

So that being said, if you are planning a wedding, shower, buying gifts or just want really different stuff vs. the typical visit Etsy.com . It holds all that is creative, fun, and handmade which is probably the best feature. You can find gifts, favors, etc. by color, style, theme- any key word really which I personally find to be amazing. If you can't find it, no worries there either. You can envision it, customize it, and have it mailed to your door step.

That is all for now but I'll be spending more time on my journey through the milestones of life. Essentially every friend close to me is getting engaged, married, pregnant, or just had a baby so the fun is just getting started. Alas! Next onto the party options and details!

I'm on a mission to find unique bachelorette party options in Southeastern Wisconsin and Milwaukee. If you are a masseuse and work on location, please get in contact with me. If you have other bachelorette services to offer, also please contact me. I'd normally start with the big city travel options with a group of girls from out of state but I am looking forward to the challenge of keeping this shin dig close to home. We shall see if I can keep it that way! Otherwise Barbie's New Suite at the Palms Las Vegas Looks Very Tempting!

Photo Credit: Rock Candy- Eventiva.com
Barbie Palms Suite- Chip Geek and Palms Casino

When to Book a Wedding DJ...Don't Stress Yourself Out!

2010-04-18T21:09:00.000-07:00

As I've been reviewing wedding trends over the past years, I must say I'm amazed at the number of brides that wait to book their wedding entertainment. I fully understand that the game has changed a bit with the economy and credit crunch but more and more brides are "gambling" with their wedding vendors, especially DJs.

The question I ask, do you really want to gamble with your wedding entertainment? Many brides don't know what to look for when booking their wedding entertainment; so they rely on friends, weddings they attend, and reviews. Some may search online via The Knot or maybe simply Google search. These are all great resources but I still think researching and booking in advance is a better "gamble" than waiting until 3 months or even closer to your wedding date. If you want the best entertainment: plan, research, and book early!

If you are looking for more ways to research and find wedding entertainment, here are some great questions to ask:

Who will be the actual DJ or DJs entertaining on my wedding day?

Does the DJ provide a contract? Review the contract!

How long will you hold the date for us? What deposit is required to hold the date?

How long have you been in the business? Do you work exclusively for this company?

Do you have other events on the date of my wedding that you'll personally perform?

What differentiates you from all the other DJs?

How many weddings have you performed?

What are the newest or latest trends in wedding entertainment?

Will you emcee the wedding?

Can you provide custom up-lighting?

Have you performed at my venue? Do you have any specific recommendations for my venue?

What do you do if my guests aren't dancing?

Can we do anything different for the typical wedding formalities vs. what is typically done?

Can we submit a "Do Not Play List" or a "Must Play List"?

These are only a few questions to research when reviewing wedding DJs or entertainment. If a DJ or entertainment company seems to stutter at any of these requests, move on- they will not customize your evening into "your night" to remember. Chances are they have a "canned" cheesy routine that will not be the entertainment you envisioned.

How do you differentiate one company from another? They all have music and equipment. On the surface, it would appear that all companies are the same. However, anyone having been to an event where the entertainment is unbearable, will eagerly describe the true value of a distinguished company.

What makes the difference? Simple. Talent.

The entire “Willie Fun” experience revolves around it. From your event preparations to the performance and interaction with your guests, a truly unique and memorable event is what we are known for and our promise. As you’ve read our about us, what we actually do is truly more about you.

Learn more about Willie Fun Entertainment Weddings and availability at www.williefunweddings.com.

Interested in custom up-lighting or event production? Visit MidwestTheatrics.com.

Milwaukee Wedding DJ- When Picking a Wedding DJ- You Get What You Pay For...

2010-02-25T19:26:00.000-08:00

What should you pay for a wedding DJ? This question should be answered more often, especially in this economy!

That being said, you can't watch David Tutera or any show on WE and expect your reception entertainment, lighting, decor, etc. to even be similar if you cut the wrong corners. Yes, be frugal, get your money's worth, but understand- you get what you pay for. It applies to all aspects of the wedding- if you want a night to remember, plan a night to remember with the best professionals on the market. A good guide for a vendor? Look at their website and portfolio. Is it cheesy? Chances are your wedding will be a reflection of their services.

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Here's a run down on wedding DJs and what they cost...

$0 to $300 — Friend or Friend of Friend. Equipment? Ipod or laptop with no true audio equipment or cheap audio equipment. Music selection is limited along with vision, planning, and ability to read/entertain a crowd. They typically want to drink and do not dress to impress. You hold your breathe until they show up. They have no idea on how to lead a crowd, MC, or how to run traditional wedding formalities.

$0 to $300= Stress, embarassment, and a bad memorable experience at your wedding.

$301 to $500 — He/she thinks he/she can DJ. Still limited in music and equipment needed to entertain. They don't know how to read the crowd and they consider your wedding to be a fun hobby. They don't know how to run a wedding, may just put on an ipod so they can go dance with your guests, may drink on the job, and will have no back up equipment. They won't know traditional or professional etiquette and will not have recommendations on any formalities you may or may not want at your wedding.

$301 to $500= Horrible wedding, likely to be embarassed. May leave you wishing you rethought the soul of your wedding- your entertainment.

$501 to $800 –> These DJs consider this to be their weekend job or part-time job. They have very basic equipment, cheap lighting, and no back up equipment. They are still learning how to entertain, MC, and run the show. They use the same show for every wedding with basic announcements and still may hit on your guests or drink on the job. Probably thinks props are cool and you probably won't meet him before your big day to plan anything.

$501 to $800= Boring wedding, cookie cutter wedding. Guests will likely leave early.

$801 to $1200 –> A professional DJ. Has training and professionalism, back up equipment, and will offer different options for your big day. Will plan or meet with you ahead of time. Will have proper etiquette, apparel, music, and MCing skills. Will read the crowd and have quality lighting.

$801 to $1200 = A solid wedding experience for you and your guests- nothing too over the top.

$1201 to $2000 – Expect a professional DJ that has pride in making your day special. Experienced, professional, can work and read a crowd. The entertainment will be well planned and tailored to your liking. Expect to have trust in your entertainment and happy guests that are encouraged to engage in the party. Professional and quality lighting, sound, and back up equipment. Will plan the wedding experience for your audience while including any wedding formalities- traditional or just for you. He is their to entertain, not play background music. Your guests will be and should be impressed.

$1201 to $2000 - Happy guests and great memories for your wedding!

$2501 + – Custom entertianment for your special day from a true, passionate entertainer. Yes, think the entertainment David Tutera would hire.

$2501 + – Your dream wedding reception!

DJs only have 52 weekends a year to work and will charge based on what they know they are worth given their experience, demand for the date, and overall worth. A DJ will charge what they feel their worth, if they could get more they would charge more.

To avoid the headaches, hire the best. Yes, I understand I'm biased but wouldn't you rather have a DJ that customizes the entertainment to reflect your vision? Willie Fun Entertainers are more than just ordinary DJs. What makes the Willie Fun difference? Simple. Talent and Vision.

Willie Fun's professional experience, rapport with people and enthusiasm for decor, lighting, music and dancing are all active ingredients in creating your vision, your memories. They know the trends, and they take them to the next level. www.williefun.com

The Wonderful World of Weddings Expo...or is it just free cake?

2010-01-06T18:14:00.000-08:00

I recently reviewed the information for the upcoming bridal expo coming to State Fair Park in Wisconsin. "The Wonderful World of Weddings" or is it? I was surprised at first to see that my top vendor choices thus far were not listed. After I gave it more thought, it actually made a lot of sense.

I want the "top" vendors in the area. That being said, the top vendors in Milwaukee are not at said expo because they don't need to be. These "top" vendors have built a business on quality, entertainment, and customer service.

Have you ever been to a clothing store where the clerk followed you around, trying to make a sale? This is probably one of my biggest pet peeves! I understand you're on commission but I shop alone and I'll ask if I have a question.

Same thing at the wedding expo. Vendors are trying to force themselves upon those walking past. Why? What if the best vendors don't participate because they are successful enough without pleading for a sale?

Personally, I do not want to pay an admission fee to be bothered by sleazy sales tactics and "expo only" specials. I'd rather talk to past users of the vendor and read online reviews, personal accounts, and review portfolios.

So while you may enjoy the hustle and bustle of the expo show, please leave it at that. Enjoy a free slice of cake or a glass of champagne with your girlfriends. But please, do not look for your actual wedding vendors. Do your homework and enjoy your carefully selected vendors.

Here are some of my favorites in Milwaukee as I prepare for my big day!

Engagement Rings- New York City- Nothing beats the unique selection and market pricing. If your man enjoys "making a deal" it can also be a lot of fun!

Flowers- Barb's Green House Florist http://www.barbsgreenhouseflorist.com/

Photography- This is a toss up! I may have two! Shoot the Moon Photography- stmphoto.com OR Front Room OR Patrick Manning

Cake- My exception to the above. Simma's will be at the show but I'd much rather have my own personal tasting! But let them eat cake! Enjoy! http://www.simmasbakery.com/

Entertainment- We will have multiple as you may expect from my groom to be...Willie Fun Entertainment will handle the ceremony lighting and sound, cocktail entertainment, and dinner music. For our reception it will be Willie Fun Entertainment collaborating with some of the top DJs from around the country. One of our favorites will be the headliner for sure- Mr. DJ Scene. Midwest Theatrics and Willie Fun entertainment will customize our reception lighting to have the perfect ambiance for each chapter of the unforgettable evening. Willie Fun Entertainment Willie Fun Entertainment Midwest Theatrics Midwest Theatrics

5 Things to Know When Picking a DJ

2010-01-03T11:14:00.000-08:00

As the economy has shifted, there seems to be an array of "DJS" entering the market. Let us help you decide the best fit for you so you can avoid the nightmare of a Craigslist DJ with no experience!

1. Why are there so many cheap DJs on Craigslist compared to the more expensive professionals?

Everyone thinks they can take an ipod and DJ. Not true! Professional DJs read and engage the crowd, capture the special moments, and work directly with you to customize the best show to meet your needs.

There are only 52 weekends in a year so the best DJs prioritize the most popular dates. The top dates are the most expensive for the top DJs on the market.

Do your research...are they listed? What are their reviews? Don't risk your entertainment! It sets the pace for the night!

2. Do you really know who will show up the night of your event?

Be sure to confirm with the DJ before some random person shows up. Many DJ companies will pull the bait and switch. You think you're getting one experience with the DJ you booked with and then they said a less talented enterainer.

3. Does your DJ customize your night or does he have a stock playlist he simply plays?

An entertainer that will truly make your event fun and memorable will have a very different show for each group or event. They should customize the playlist, offer a "Do Not Playlist", and build in special features such as specialty lighting, sound, or engagement for your particular crowd. The DJ should read their audience and be accommodating.

4. Will your DJ take control?

As the DJ reads the audience, he/she should also lead the party. If people aren't dancing or a change needs to be made, he/she should be ahead of the game. He/she is not only the "DJ". They should be the emcee leading the party.

5. You're thinking of having someone man an ipod vs. hiring a DJ? Think again!
Ipods are great for personal use, but they are not the best idea for a good party.

The ipod needs to be programmed and timed perfectly. Also, an ipod won't read the crowd and may go off schedule depending on how the night progresses.

As memories are made, the perfect music can be the difference! A professional DJ will be there to match the mood, build the party, and troubleshoot if needed. Even if you do find someone to watch the ipod, there will still be gaps, long intros, or dead air. Professional DJs also bring backup equipment to every wedding.

I hope this helps as you plan your next event! While some cheaper options seem cost effective, they will cost you in the long run. Visit williefun.com for all your DJ and lighting needs!

Getting engaged this Christmas? Here are some romantic proposal ideas.

2009-12-02T13:40:00.000-08:00

Christmas is by far one of the most popular times to get engaged. It reminds me of the song by John Mayer- St. Patrick's Day.

"Here comes the cold/ Break out the winter clothes/ And find a love to call your own...No way November will see our goodbye/ When it comes to December it's obvious why/No one wants to be alone at Christmas time"

It is the most wonderful time of the year and the perfect romantic scenes are already set up! So, given this magical time of year...what are the best places in and around Milwaukee and/or Christmas?

1. At home- Enjoy your beautifully lit home. The tree, the fire...the setting is perfect. Hide the ring in an ornament, on the Christmas train circling the tree, or perhaps strip the tree of all ornaments and make the ring the ONLY ornament.

2. Take her to look at Christmas lights. At the end, stage the perfect setting where you Write your proposal in Christmas lights for all to see!

3. When the family is all around, plan the perfect escape. Then return dressed as Santa with a very important gift for only her.

4. Taking a trip during the holidays? Plenty of opportunities here... Of course there is the beach, plant a stocking in the room before you arrive or have family and friends waiting in the baggage claim with a sign asking her vs. your last name for transportation.

5. One place in Milwaukee that is always festive with Christmas lights is At Random. Turn the Tiki Love Bowl into a delightful surprise!

6. Turn a carriage ride around the city into the best night of her life.

7. Go ice skating...Christmas music, playful children, the city all in lights... "fall down" onto one knee and watch the sparks fly!

8. Invite her to bake cookies with your mom. As she's baking and chatting, slip the ring into the ingredients or better yet build a gingerbread house.

9. Let her place the star or tree topping on the tree. Have it be the very last gesture and have the ring waiting at the top!

10. Pretend a new puppy or kitten is her big surprise. When you give her the pet, place the ring on the collar for an extra surprise!

Need a wedding DJ or planning a corporate party this holiday season? Check out Willie Fun Entertainment!

Milwaukee Engagement Party Locations

2009-10-19T12:06:00.001-07:00

If you google, Milwaukee engagement party locations...you aren't given much direction. To be honest I'm shocked at the lack of vendors that could be promoting their location!

After some research and digging here are my top choices so far:

1. Vino 100- Great atmosphere, location, and of course wine selection! www.vino100milwaukee.com

2. Bartolotta's Lake Park Bistro- Beautiful location, great food! www.lakeparkbistro.com

3. Hinterland- Amazing food, unique atmosphere but a bit spendy. www.hinterlandbeer.com

4. Cuvee- Very cool atmosphere, great drinks. Gorgeous! www.cuveemke.com

5. Winestein's- Great wine selection, appetizers, and dinner! A jem in lake country! www.winesteins.biz

Now, what about a theme for the engagement party? I personally love Halloween. Perhaps a Costume Engagement party!

Bridal Fashion Week Brought to Milwaukee

2009-09-28T20:16:00.000-07:00

Bridal Fashion Week in New York City was amazing. The weekend was fully star studded with the VMAs, JayZ 9/11 Concert Tribute, and the US Open all in one weekend. Enjoy the runway couture!

http://www.couturefashionweek.com/bridal.htm

http://www.fashionshowroom.com/weddinggowns/wedding2.htm

With the celebrities in town, fashion was definately a focus for all festivities. So without further ado, here are some of my favorites: Galit Couture, Jamil Khansa, and Jean Fares.

My favorite bridal gown trends heading into 2010 weddings include:

1. Silky Silhouettes- slim to embrace sexy curves

2. Vintage Ballgowns for elegance and fairytale endings

3. Mermaid Skirts both sexy and striking

4. Vintage 40's/50's Glam- embrace the styles inspired by the stars

Brides can have fun with their styles and gowns. Many will tie in their wedding colors into their gown by integrating sashes, multi-colored gowns, and appliques. One shoulders will also make a come back along with floaty fabrics and practical hidden pockets for the "must haves" on the big day!

Don't forget to have your lighting complement your gown! If you're in the Milwaukee area, try Willie Fun Entertainment for your lighting and DJ needs. I will be! www.williefun.com

Feel free to email questions or ideas to Mrs.DJtoBE at janelmayer@gmail.com or twitter @MrsDJtoBE.

Wedding Reception Decor- A Bright Idea

2009-09-24T11:25:00.000-07:00

Many people think flowers when planning their wedding decor. To transform your wedding reception venue from standard to simply stunning, think beyond the flowers and centerpieces. A great way to do so is through well designed lighting. When done well, lighting creates a mood. It can make your cake, flowers, and guests look better.

I have been on the hunt for the perfect lighting and have decided to hire a specialist. Many specialists have theater or event planning backgrounds and will work with your florist for the best overall decor.

Another key to successful lighting decor is transforming your venue in the dark. Visit and plan your decor to match the time of the reception. Plan out a map of tables, decorations, DJ/emcee stand, etc. Make sure to illuminate the places you want to draw attention to. Illuminating walls, windows, or ceilings can draw attention away from the center of the room. Typically you want to keep the attention on the dance floor and head table. Also be sure to keep florescent lighting off and ask the venue about dimmers and doorways. If kept on or open, these can ruin your planned look.

Lighting can also add extra pop to your wedding colors when done well. Many DJs and wedding planners are pushing initial or image lights that are placed on the wall or floor. Avoid these and achieve a more high end look with colors and effects to compliment your wedding colors and decor. Try LEDs or color washes over these light stencils.

If you're in the Milwaukee area, try Willie Fun Entertainment for your lighting needs. I will be! www.williefun.com

Feel free to email questions or ideas to Mrs.DJtoBE at janelmayer@gmail.com or twitter @MrsDJtoBE.

Location, Location, Location- Milwaukee Wedding Venues

2009-09-22T11:29:00.000-07:00

Some venues that have peaked my interest include:

The War Memorial- http://www.warmemorialcenter.org

The Eisner- http://www.eisnermuseum.org

The Intercontinental- http://www.ichotelsgroup.com/intercontinental

Brynwood Country Club- http://www.brynwoodcc.com

Lake Park Bistro- http://www.lakeparkbistro.com/

Grand Geneva- http://www.grandgeneva.com/

Wisconsin Club- http://www.grandgeneva.com/

Marcus Center for Performing Arts- http://www.weddingmapper.com/plan/vendor/wi/milwaukee/reception_venues/marcus_center_for_the_performing_arts/3167

Pilot House- Pier Wisconsin- http://www.bartolottacatering.com/slideshow_pw/slideshow_pw.html

Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum and Gardens- http://cavtmuseums.org/vt/home.html

Or, how about a tent wedding? http://tinyurl.com/ngb526

Beyond the venue, more and more couples are also integrating more entertainment into their big day. Spa days, golf, etc. What are the trends? Do we have entertainment at the actual wedding? Perhaps Wii or Casino games? We both love Vegas so perhaps this would be appropriate.

What are some of the best venues and themes you've seen? Where do people go after the wedding? Do couples set up festivities for the wedding attendees to enjoy for the "after party"?

Feel free to email questions or ideas to Mrs.DJtoBE at janelmayer@gmail.com or twitter

@MrsDJtoBE.

Need a DJ? Try williefun.com. Next blog, what not to have left to book 2 weeks out from the big day!

Wedding Etiquette- First Hand Blunders

2009-09-06T21:58:00.000-07:00

Has wedding etiquette changed in the past 20 years? I recently attended a wedding where I could not help but notice the onslaught of etiquette blunders. Simple things I took for granted were not respected by the guests of this wedding.

1. During the wedding ceremony- leave your cell phone in the car. If not, at least silence it and don't check texts or emails until after the "I Do's".

2. Drunk and obnoxious. Yes, by all means, have a good time. But...do not get wasted before dinner even begins! If you do find yourself a bit tipsy, at least compose yourself, don't embrace it!

3. The clinking! Yes, we want to show our enthusiasm and see the love but be respectful. This tradition, while annoying to many couples today, goes back to when people believed the noise would scare away evil spirits. If you are the bride or groom and dread hearing that sound over and over again during your reception, you could just ask the DJ or emcee to announce that you request that they don’t. But you could also have a little fun and find other creative ways to share with your guests. If golf is a favored sport among you and your guests, set up a putting area. You will kiss if someone gets a hole in one!

4. Photos while appreciated later should not be demanded. No screaming for the bride and groom's attention, especially during key moments such as the first dance, cake cutting, or speeches.

5. Don't talk or throw things during the speeches either! I know this seemed crazy to me as well but I witnessed it! No matter how long or poorly presented. Smile, clap, and listen.

6. Chicken or "steak"? If you do not enjoy your free meal, have some class and eat slowly. Do not surround the centerpiece with chicken leg decorations or make a castle with gravy moat.

7. The dance floor is now open. Enjoy, have fun, but do not treat the floor as your audition for "So you think you can dance". Stay on your feet and by all means don't be the annoying one requesting the "chicken dance" every 15 minutes. Less cheese please.

Feel free to email questions or ideas to Mrs.DJtoBE at janelmayer@gmail.com or twitter @ MrsDJtoBE.

Need a DJ? Try williefun.com.

Couture Fashion Week- I have a date with luxury!

2009-08-31T09:34:00.000-07:00

I love fashion! So I've decided to make the investment in the bridal event of the year in New York city...a former home of mine. Let's be serious, I do all I can to get back to the city. So Sept. 11th-13th I'll be in the Big Apple, drooling at all the luxurious wedding tinsel.

Since 2003, Couture Fashion Week has presented a series of couture and luxury fashion shows multiple times each year in New York City, Dallas, Palm Beach, and other selected cities. Venues include top locations such as Waldorf-Astoria, the St. Regis and others.

During the week I'll review the finest designers from around the world presenting their exquisite garments and accessories. Beyond this, the event includes world class entertainment, art, and luxury products/services.

I'll be very curious to see what designs I actually like for my gown versus the very distinct couture that is too out there for any real wedding. I'm also interested in who will attend, especially the brides to be!

So if you have any requests, please let me know! Now...what to wear!

Love,
Mrs.DJtoBE

Wedding Reception Location and Themes...what's hot and what's not?

2009-08-24T11:01:00.000-07:00

Beyond the ring, the reception venue seems to need the most lead time for planning and booking. This is one area where my fiance-to-be has an opinion, especially regarding acoustics. His goal is to have the best party for all our guests. This is what he does, as a DJ, the party and entertainment is on his shoulders. That being said, a wedding theme could go hand in hand with one's venue. Most venues can handle an array of themes but what if a bride wanted to be really different? What is the best venue? Tent? Restaurant? Hotel?

Personally, I don't see my wedding at a hotel. Sure it seems convenient but it also seems sterile. So I look to you...what venues have people used that are off the radar? Which are the hottest in Milwaukee, Chicago, and everywhere in between?

Beyond the venue, more and more couples are also integrating more entertainment into their big day. Spa days, golf, etc. What are the trends? Do we have entertainment at the actual wedding? Perhaps Wii or Casino games? We both love Vegas so perhaps this would be appropriate.

What are some of the best venues and themes you've seen? Where do people go after the wedding? Do couples set up festivities for the wedding attendees to enjoy for the "after party"?

Lots of questions!

Cheers!
MrsDJtoBE

Jewelers need to be more manly!

2009-08-21T12:46:00.000-07:00

The search continues for the perfect ring! I've now given him a direction and the ball is in his court. While DJing hundreds of weddings, he's seen and heard it all so I'm very interested to see what he comes up with as far as a proposal and final ring.

I swear overall, he was more picky than me! As he so eloquently stated, "this kind of purchase is going to be the s@%*t! When I do something like this, it is going to be done right." I say, more power to him.

One thing I did notice over time at the jewelers...they are NOT very man friendly. If I could transform the perfect jeweler. It would look more like a high end cigar bar. This is the type of treatment and atmosphere a man needs to make this type of decision. Not to mention, to drop this kind of money. It would be so easy to execute and I guarantee easy to market.

Think overall experience for the man. He needs some guidance, relaxation, and of course pampering!

Beyond this, I've been focusing on the long term needs of wedding planning. Which aspects have the longest lead time? I've focused on location, location, location. What are the top wedding venues that you need to book well in advance and where have you experienced the best weddings? I can't wait to read your responses. But for now I'll sit in amazement at how many brides are calling to book their DJ 2 weeks in advance! How do they do it!?!

Cheers!

Mrs.DJtoBE

Pre-wedding bliss and confusion.....

2009-08-13T08:18:00.000-07:00

First of all, thanks for all the overwhelming responses. We appreciate your support and helpful tips! We're getting married but he has not done the official proposal. I'm not going to pick out the ring but I'd like to at least try them on for the first time. :) I started the blog ahead of time to get additional tips from you! Feel free to email me any time!

Now for my next challenges...
Pre-wedding bliss does enable a girl to add on a few pounds! As I have watched my friends go through this process, it always seems that the couple starts a diet/workout. I think people automatically want to look their absolute best for their wedding day and that includes being fit for the honeymoon.

That being said, my situation is a bit different. I'll be competing for Miss USA in September, far before the wedding. So I'm in training mode now. Being in pageants has exposed me to every fitness regime imaginable. I've heard and seen it all.

This time around, I'm using a combination of things. I am working with a fantastic trainer- Aren Soto of www.kaizenstudio.com along with Dermascape treatments. I've learned over the years that women trainers are much harder on me which is what I need. I've also learned that diet and exercise can only take you so far, which is why Dermascape reshaping treatment was developed. It targets your "trouble" areas through thermotherpy. We'll see how this goes as we get closer to the dates.

Beyond the pre-wedding diet, I have another question. Which is the best planning website. I've looked at Brides.com, theknot.com, onewed.com, weddingchannel.com, and 1weddingsource.com. Is any one site better than the others? Any preferences? They all seem a bit overwhelming to me! Or...do I get a planner? Do Milwaukee brides utilize these?

Cheers!
Mrs.DJtoBE
janelayer@gmail.com

Why aren't more jewelers online?

2009-08-11T16:31:00.001-07:00

Well the hunt has begun. I have officially started looking at rings! Only one problem...I tend to be an online shopper and the online jeweler sites are either very limited or non-existent. I even tried twitter, only to find that few jewelers even have an account!

I know I'm a socialite when it comes to the social media world but what about others like me? This may be a great opportunity for jewelers to expand their horizons.

So if there are any jewelers out there that I may be missing, please reach out to me! The only ones I find are on either coast! I know I'll need to try them on but I need to browse first!

Now my next question. How do you chose a date and time of year for your wedding? Is there some grand equation or do you simply choose out of thin air? Or is it more about your interests, for example I love Halloween? Advice please! I just hope my wedding date isn't dictated by all the other brides in the Midwest since Willie Fun will be booked...

Help!
Mrs. DJtoBE
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What's a girl to do?

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With much anticipation, the day has arrived. I've found the one man I want to spend my life with- whew! So...now what!?!

Who is this fine fellow you may ask? A man that has planned and attended more weddings than I'd ever imagined...a DJ. He owns www.williefun.com. Sure he does proms, theatrics, and corporate events- but ask this guy about wedding trends and be prepared to listen.

So how do I top all these wonderful days of bliss witnessed through the years?

This is why I started this blog. I wanted to offer a resource to women who have the same questions I have and entertainment for those with the answers. Yes, I'm here to amuse you.

I contemplated starting this blog once the ring was bought and I was well on my way but I thought, why wait! I'm sure you will all have valuable tidbits of information at my disposal.

So here goes nothing! I will have many questions along the way! But first things first- what kind of ring? What brand? Setting? Style? Color? What am I not even considering? I invite your comments, questions, and readership!

Cheers!
Mrs.DJtoBE

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My first blog entry is currently being composed, stay tuned!